February 24, 2012
by sugarandtrash
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Oh, so its been a few days for sure since I have posted anything. I finally figured out how to look at my site stats and was a little tweaked for sure at what I had found. I have been getting over 200 views a day (I know, very small time compared to many out there but better than zero!). Yay, I am getting visits, I thought. But, wait. 99% came over from a Google search for Rainbow Dash. This was one post I had written to show a cute plushie I had sewed for my daughter’s friend. At first I was quite pleased at all the traffic. But then I realized that people are mostly only coming here for….My Little Pony? That’s no bueno.
I realized that I either need to become a “Bronie” (not happening) or regroup and figure out what I want this blog to be. I already know what I am doing wrong. I write and just hope that people will show up and read this. I have “followers”, after all! But I know what that really means. I also spend very little (no) time on about 90% of the blogs that I follow too. Chalk that up to blog hops where reciprocal follows are expected. Oh, and the “I follow back” on my sidebar. I am finding that gathering followers as if they’re cheap collectibles is not the right way to go. I cannot expect every follower to visit for every post. Especially if I am not also going out into blogland regularly. And that’s it right there. I spend very little time visiting other’s blogs. And that’s my fault for not finding the time during the day to go out and connect with other people.
Here is why I blog:
- I write because I am building a home business and I need to separate myself from the gazillions of other extremely talented Etsy sellers.
- I would like to eventually advertise and gain some income from blogging.
Here are some things I found out along the way:
- I enjoy the relationships that I have built along the way. As I have neglected my blog my acquaintances don’t visit as much. I actually thing of many of you more often than you would think. Even though this is my work, I have many friends that I have met at jobs throughout my life and I remain friends with them many years later.
- Blogging is hard! I compare myself to others a lot and that leads to losing my own voice and style. I see what works for others and I think that it will work for me too. But it won’t. I often see blog designs that are identical to other designs. We can’t all be the same!
- I need to put myself out there more for sure! I definitely need to reconnect with old blog friends and make some new ones as well.
- Changing your blog name and platform is confusing to others. I lost more than a few people with that one. Which surprised me a bit because I have seen others do that successfully.
- I am too “all over the place”. I have had trouble finding my niche.
So as I regroup and seek out my niche I am thinking of abandoning Sugar and Trash. I’m not sure yet. After all, it has gotten me 7,851 visits since I wrote it. Sorry for the strange ramble. But I really don’t expect that anyone will see this, lol!